As far as I'm concerned, we are better at analyzing things that has a certain distance from ourselves.
Let me get it straight, you see things better when you're not busy thinking what you should do about yourself; a different point of view, 3rd person view. Some people manage to control this and make themselves able to see from one point to another.
This is a thing that you can practice on. You should be able to get in and out of the case you're in, deduct or analyze it thoroughly and make a solution out of it. Or so I may say. Other times, you need help from someone else.
Whenever a conflict of interest happens, each of you will try to find a solution for it, or seek help. And after all is done, comes the retrospective phase. Doesn't always have to be instantly, but due time, people do retrospect and think about what had happened, and what had been done.
At the moment of retrospection, we can look things more clearer; and with all the data collected, can and will make a mental note so that it won't happen again in the future. This is what we living beings do, experience and adapt to the nature and ecosystem that we live in; both natural and artificial.
Before I get ahead of myself, let me just analyze and retrospect on myself, and rest before it gets too late...
Sweating on the hot night,
Niki - Denpasar, Bali
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